My First Orgy

Hi, I'm Suzy Softy and believe me, I never thought I'd be a sex blogger! What better way to introduce myself to the blogging world than to describe my first orgy? That's what I thought anyway…

Mr. Softy and I are your average, every-day, yuppie couple. I'm a teacher and Mr. S is in the corporate world. We own an Apple computer and shop at Whole Foods. We've been married for six years and together for over ten. During that time we were completely monogamous. If you had asked me 10 years ago, I'd even say I was a bit conservative. Now, we're in our late 20's and recently came to the realization that we enjoy some more kinky things in the bedroom. Mainly, sex involving other people. We had a discussion about what we both wanted (pretty much anything except full intercourse with others) and decided to take a trip to Miami Velvet.

Obviously, being inexperienced as we were, we were quite nervous. What would it be like? Would we just walk in and instantly get pulled into a pile of oiled-up bodies? What kind of people would be there? Old? Young? Hot? Not-so-hot? Scary? Intimidating? Creepy? What do we wear? What do we bring? How do we interact with people? Chat about the weather? Go straight for the sex? Even with these thoughts running through our heads, we were still pretty excited to just see where the evening took us. What did we have to lose, right? (except about $150!)

We dressed like we would to go out to a “normal” club. I wore a somewhat sexy halter dress, high heels, etc. We grabbed a bottle of vodka on the way over, and we were set! (They provide mixers and a bartender at Miami Velvet, which is great!) After filling out the forms with the pencil slipping in my clammy hands and paying the hefty entrance fees, we took a deep breath and walked through the doors of our very first sex club.

We were pleasantly surprised. The people around us were of all ages, but mostly under 40 and many in their 20's or 30's. Some were dressed more risqué, some looked just like us (or even more nervous!). Of course there were heavily made-up girls with spray tans and fake boobs, I mean, we were in Miami! But, some were Plain Janes like me. No one was gross or extremely unattractive, a few were just a little creepy. Obviously, there were the more overtly sexual people, but there were subtle couples as well. We were instantly more confident.

We walked straight to the BYOB bar and had a drink. We circled the trendy flashing dance floor a bit, looked around nervously, then got up the courage to dance a little. We mostly stuck to ourselves, but had a great time dancing, drinking, and feeling the sexual vibe.

There are a couple of dimly lit rooms with soft plush couches at Miami Velvet. These are the more tame rooms in which people (mostly fully clothed) are strewn about in various positions, making out, touching, etc. We chilled there for a while and joined the fun. Then, we made our way to the locker room. We had no idea what may lie behind the locker room door, but we decided to jump right in. We grabbed a white towel, disrobed, and tossed our clothes in a locker.

The “towel only” area consists of a handful of private and not-so-private rooms. There are kinky devices to strap each other down, private rooms with beds, rooms with windows for watching, and then there is the room with a big wrap-around bed lining the wall full of naked people. We decided to go straight to this room. Why not go right to the big time?

We started out in the corner, having some fun on our own, watching, and listening. The rooms are far from soundproof. You could hear moans of pleasure and sounds of spanking from all directions. I never thought I’d enjoy that kind of thing, but I definitely did. After a while, getting more turned on and into the moment, we moved a little closer to the action and snuggled in between a few couples.

It didn't take long before I reached over and our first orgy began!

We mostly interacted with a mid-30ish couple. He had some tattoos. She had fakes boobs. Most of the play was between the girls at first. As things heated up, we did more to each other. Our guys enjoyed watching as they fingered and touched us. This was my first experience with another girl, but I took to it very naturally and enjoyed it.

Every once in a while another couple would join in, touching, kissing, and whatnot. No one ever got creepy, pushy, or too aggressive. If you used body language to show you weren't into what was happening, the other person would respect that. We engaged in a little oral sex with several people, but mostly just did some heavy petting and fingering. I really have no idea how long we were in the room. Most likely a couple of hours, but it's really hard to say. Time flies when you're having an orgy! I was barely drunk, just enough to be a little uninhibited. The whole thing was an adrenaline rush. Almost like a high.

I definitely recommend Miami Velvet if you are curious about swinging. Sure, not everyone there looks like Johnny Depp or Megan Fox, but we still found ourselves surrounded by some pretty attractive people. I loved the DJ and the dancing and knowing that I was in the middle of a hundred like-minded people. The sexuality was palpable.  Maybe it was the dozens of flat screens playing porn.

Bonus! I think I also spotted a nacho bar in the corner, which is usually right up my alley. But that just didn't seem like a good idea for this activity…

So, I’d have to say that I’m really into this! It has added a huge spark in our sex life, more than I ever thought it would. I have realized the level of my attraction to women and how much I like to act on it, not to mention the excitement that it brings Mr. S. The whole experience was actually quite intimate for us.  How can a massive orgy be intimate, you ask? I’m not quite sure. As it was happening, I’d look up at my husband now and then. We’d stare at each other, half with amazement at what we were doing and half with this incredible sexuality that I’ve really never felt before. I brought this up the next day and Mr. S confirmed that he felt the same way.

We’re back home now and looking into the swinging community in our city. We’ve contacted a few couples, had a few getting-to-know-you “dates”, and have made a few plans. But, we haven’t swung with anyone yet. I can safely say that this will become a part of what we do now.

I’d love to talk with people who had a similar first experience or even answer questions if you're just getting started like us. Feel free to comment and ask anything!