Apparently the use of contraception means the death of western society. Who knew that if you had sex for any purpose other than for procreation you sin?
Author: Dylan Thomas
Dylan Thomas
As a co-host on Life on the Swingset and creator of The Gentleperverts' Social Club, Dylan Thomas speaks candidly about nonmonogamy, kink, and non-normative sexuality to eradicate the stigma and shame that keep people from expressing and being who they want. He brings awareness to issues involving gender identity, equal rights, and intersectionality by creating discussions with people who feel unaffected by them. He also creates learning opportunities for men to become stronger allies and better people. Find and feel free to engage him on Twitter.
52 Weeks of Naughty Nights are a surprisingly thoughtful, naughty, and accessible way to spice up any partnership!
I’d been chomping at the bit to review some massage oils. Giving long, smooth, sensual massages is one of my favorite things, and I don’t make any bones about it. I’ll give a nice foot massage, a back rub, a tension release shoulder workup and I’ll enjoy all of it. But I really enjoy giving a full body oil rub down. So, I sat down with three products from Intimate Organics from their Organic Massage line, I had the Sensual Cocoa Bean and Goji Berry Massage Oil, the Energizing Massage Oil, and the Relaxation Massage Oil billed as “Sensual, Energizing,…
On that first show I believe we hit you with a new term, “compersion”. We didn’t hit on it too much, though we’ll discuss it in future shows, but I think it deserves a short explanation. Cooper described it as “… the opposite of jealousy” in one of his podcast reviews and in the podcast. I understand it as the enjoyment of watching someone you love experience pleasure with someone else.
Ooooh boy… So I’ve been taking a bit more … “me” time lately and I have to be honest, it’s been pretty great. I focus quite a bit on my partner, whoever I may be with, but I started to get the feeling that maybe I’d started neglecting myself. I set out on a little experiment that’s really ended up taking a few months. So while I’ll get to that later, I want to mention a series of Boy Butter products I gave a try during the exploration. I had an opportunity to try out the entire line of Boy…
I experienced a brief moment in time this morning where I lost myself and let my senses flood into my consciousness at full speed. It was completely unintentional and amazing.
Dylan reviews the Ride On penis extender from Vixen Creations, discusses Russel Brand’s testicles, and waxes philosophical on healthy erections
Dylan gets down and dirty with An Open Invitation: A Real Swinger’s Party In San Francisco by Private Independent, a film that follows a young couple as they first begin to explore swinging, culminating with footage from a Real Swingers Party in San Francisco with 127 amateur swingers and porn stars.
A concerned newbie swinger asks Dylan if the fact that he is uncircumcised would be a problem in the swinging lifestyle, and when to mention that fact to prospective playmates.
Tonia and I love sex, I think being swingers that’s pretty much understood. We enjoy learning about each other, learning about other people, and learning new ways and paths to enjoying ourselves and others. Oral sex is a big part of that, so we picked up Tristan Taromino’s Expert Guide to Oral Sex: Part Two, Fellatio and watched it with both an academic eye, and a practical perspective. Quoting Tonia; For a while I’ve been interested in learning how to give better oral sex. I’ve never really enjoyed giving oral sex but I know multiple people that do, so…