The female G-spot is regularly evoked in pop culture. Does it is exist? Doesn’t it? Does it make you come harder? Does it make you ejaculate? Any woman who has gotten comfortably acquainted with her sexual response knows about it, knows where hers is and knows exactly how to tweak it to enjoy its benefits. How delicious and hot to add variety to that repertoire of pleasure-filled orgasms. Interestingly, there is a similar orgasm available to men that most shy away from simply because that pleasure button lies within the backdoor: the P-spot. Prostate stimulation in men creates an entirely…
Author: Ginger
Mingling is challenging for even the most adept swingers. Given that Prof and I are in the middle of a long vanilla stretch, I’m finding that in absence of real social situations I’m daydreaming about what I would say to that spectacularly hot inked up woman or tall, dark and handsome bespectacled gentleman across the way.
Ginger talks about the closeness of a swinger community, and how our lifestyle brings us close together.
There is no better place from which to blog than from one of the beach side beds at Desire Resort & Spa—where we happen to be parked at this very moment. Professional bloggers? Absolutely…as long as we are constantly surrounded by naked people who inspire us to write! Without fail, John and Allie from Swingercast have pulled together a great group—familiar friends and many more newly created. We also re-met many people who are not part of the group, but vacation here the same time every year. We’ve received some very sweet feedback on our writing, which always inspires more.…
Prof and I have been all over the place. Geographically. Emotionally. Relationally. It is pretty damn cool. The hard part about being all over the place, is we haven’t been here writing. The cliché that we ethical sluts have to be excellent time managers is true. You’ve heard this from me before here in the blog. But we will triumph over the time crunch! Prof and I have too much fun sharing our perspectives here with you to let it fall off the radar. And, indeed, we have evolved so much since we started this entertaining little diversion, if anything…
At the beginning of October 2010, the Center of Sexual Health Promotion at Indiana University released the results of their National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB). This survey is the most comprehensive study of sexual behavior in the United States since 1994 and Alfred Kinsey’s research of the 1940’s and 1950’s before that. The results shed light on the sexual behavior of Americans through the life span, from age 14 through 94. This information gathered about our sexual behavior does have some limitations. Most namely, the representative sample of those self-identifying as gay, lesbian and bisexual is too…
I have always been able to orgasm by just thinking. I take it for granted and enjoy it very much. I’ve come to learn that the ability to orgasm by simply thinking is rare and worthy of scientific study and as, I have learned, is championed by Barbara Carrellas, the Urban Tantrika. Huh? Really? How interesting. I say this not to proclaim my scientific-study worthy orgasming ability, but to simply note that whatever we personally experience in our sex lives is our “normal.” We have a very egocentric way of defining of what is sexually normal. When we open up our…
Hey, hotties! Ginger here with a perspective on a fellow swinger’s bump in the non-monogamous road with his partner. It certainly isn’t always easy, but here’s to hoping open, honest communication, attentive listening and empathetic understanding gets us back to smoother roads. “Here is my situation: I am a very happily married man that after 12 years, a year ago, talked to my wife about going to a party. She agreed and everything was awesome. We didn’t swap but she had great time so did I. We went to a few more parties with little more interaction and decided to…
Hey, sexies…Ginger here. A Swingset reader asks a question about the ever-present scenario of uneven chemistry and attraction. If you are in an open relationship looking for couple lovers long enough, you have encountered this tricky scenario. We’d love to hear from all of you seasoned swingers about how you have handled it. Anyway, my wife and I just started discussing swinging. We’ve been to two meet and greets…one was at a vanilla bar where there was no hanky panky. The second one was at a hotel room where we saw plenty of fucking. We didn’t participate but ended up…
Ginger here, taking on a delicate inquiry about how to begin a dialog with a partner about open relationships. Dave asks: I’m happily married (for 16 years). My wife is great & I’m fortunate to have found her. However, I’ve begun to realize (over the past few/recent years) that I want experiences that I just don’t think we can achieve on our own. Until recently I’ve always felt like I was kinda being “unfaithful”/unappreciative for even having such thoughts. I’ve obviously looked at swinging before; I mean who wouldn’t want to more sex with more people? Then I struck a…