Ginger tells poor J what to do when a first swinging date turns bad with broken rules and hurt feelings
Author: Ginger
I’ll never forget it. Prof and I were less than a month into a hot threesome relationship with our first lover. It was so steamy, passionate and fun. But while Prof and I were chatting in the hot tub one night, we realized the only other person in the whole world we could talk to about our thrilling, new-found relationship was her, our sexy new lover. While she is an amazing conversationalist, none of us had any experience in this swinging thing. And it felt a lot like we were the only people in the world experiencing such a dynamic.…
Ginger answers a couple whose question is about infidelity leading to swinging, and gives advice for those couples on how to transition.
We feel compelled to post a blog in the wake of the most recent Swingset episode in which Cooper and Marilyn joined the Sex is Fun crew for their trip to Desire. We’re so happy everybody had a fantastic time. That is what Desire is all about! In the lead up to the trip, friends who are all part of this diverse community that is open relationships had an open dialogue in the Twitterverse in which they disagreed. In episode 31 of Swingset, the issue is discussed again. Prof and I respect everyone’s right to their own opinions and everyone’s…
Happy Lady Porn Day, Swingsetters! You’ll notice a theme in the cyberverse today…Lady Porn, specifically porn created by, uniquely for or with women in mind. Lady Porn is not your dad’s Hustlers. While Lady Porn in some ways should be whatever it is that turns women on, I think it is consciousness-raising and activism that female-oriented porn even exists will give more women the permission to engage. My guess is you Swingsetters are well past permission to indulge in some sexy porn, so I have a different caliber of challenge for you Varsity level hotties: make your own Lady Porn!…
Ginger talks about the “polyswingamorous” relationship she misses most in her life, that of the girlfriend she and Prof shared.
Photo by NeoGaboX I think Prof and I are pretty open-minded. Even for swingers, I think we project an air of acceptance and openness that friends enjoy. That’s something I certainly enjoy experiencing from other sexy friends. It’s something I think many of us seek when starting to date…perhaps some more than others. As we date new people and build trust and connection with new playmates, it is lovely to learn their turn-ons and turn-offs. One of the exciting parts about dating different sexy friends is that delicious variety so many of us seek. We don’t want the same old…
Ginger swoons over her crush on Tristan Taormino, amplified by her lust for Madison Young, and satisfied thoroughly with Tristan Taormino’s Rough Sex 2 DVD
Prof and I had a super sexy fun weekend! Love that! It seems like our schedules our allowing for a bit more fun lately. We’ve come off a stretch of having no time to work in any hang out time with our sexually-open friends, or any friends for that matter. We’ve still enjoyed our time together and have anticipated this weekend where we attended a party. It was an excellent party where we were meeting many sexy friends. In true swinger fashion, it was a costume party. Neither of our costumes consisted of much material, so we were tooling around…
Women lie in bed. I’m mean lie, not as in rest in a prone position, I mean as in tell untruths. We have learned officially from the Center of Sexual Health Promotion’s National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB) that there is a gender gap. But this gender gap is much more influential and explosive than that of the political persuasion. This gender gap is orgasmic, truly an orgasm gender gap. That’s right. The NSSHB tells us that 85% of men reported their partner had an orgasm at their most recent sexual event with 64% of women reporting they…