Prof and Ginger are completely smitten. This is the genesis story of a fresh, new polyamorous triad. Listen to the classy kiss and tell of how Eli, Prof, and Ginger start to fall for each other. Discussions of communication, synchronicities, and the rarity of connecting with a vanilla unicorn in the wild are here for your entertainment. The honesty between GIn and Prof is tangible as they examine how this new relationship affects the relationship they have together. Read Esther Perel’s Mating in Captivity. We have! http://www.estherperel.com/book/mating-in-captivity/translations/us-edition/ Read Tristan Taormino’s Opening Up. We have! And you must. http://www.puckerup.com/cgi/commerce.cgi?preadd=action&key=B59-OU http://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295X?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1204133813&sr=8-10 Interested…
Author: Intellectual Foreplay
Ginger and the Professor indulge their sapiosexual selves for discussions about relationships, non-monogamy, and working and playing together.
Episode 8 is a particularly intimate discussion talking desire in the bath. It’s like you are right there with them as they enjoy their coffee post a Sunday morning tryst. Explore how desire affects how you relate and ask for what you want. Hear about ebbs and flows in who wants what sex when. And learn strategies for how to navigate finding everyone’s way to satisfaction. Read Emily Nagoski’s book Come as You Are. We are! http://www.emilynagoski.com/books/ How about some delicious sexy visuals to pique your desire? Follow our Tumblr: gingerntheprof.tumblr.com Interested in traveling to Desire with Ginger and Prof…
Kinky stuff ahead! Prof and Ginger discuss their kinks, how they discovered their kinks, and what they do with their kinks in the world of open relationships. Dominance, submission, sadism, masochism, and mashups of everything kinky can trigger both guilt and shame as well as be a catalyst for letting go of hang ups that keep us all from our pleasure. Embracing your kinky side leads to your full sexual fulfillment. Friends of Intellectual Foreplay and the Swingset, J.V. and Shara make smart, sexy things! Listen here: http://www.sexualdarkage.com Tristan Taormino’s rough sex resources are amazing. Buy them here at SheVibe.com:…
Everyone is capable of being a fantastic lover. Prof and Ginger chat about what being a fantastic lover means to them. They are on a boat! (Again!) Join them for a saucy sail where they explore the beauty of seduction as well as the intensity of a honed sexual repertoire. Interested in traveling to Desire with Ginger and Prof in April 2016? Email Ginger for details at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com. Review Intellectual Foreplay on iTunes! Connect with Ginger and Prof on Twitter @gingerntheprof @intelforeplay. Also follow @ontheswingset and @swingsetFM for all the Swingsetty goodness!
Fantasy is a useful tool and a beautiful way to play together. Exploring through fantasy is worthy of consideration when you are embarking into the world of ethical non-monogamy and multi-partnering because it is a risk-free way to discuss what works, and what doesn’t. Ginger and Prof give you permission to enjoy your fantasies together for the greater good. Interested in traveling to Desire with Ginger and Prof in April 2016? Email Ginger for details at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com. Review Intellectual Foreplay on iTunes! Connect with Ginger and Prof on Twitter @gingerntheprof @intelforeplay. Also follow @ontheswingset and @swingsetFM for all the Swingsetty…
Prof and Ginger take you for a sail and discuss their introduction and experience with compersion. No worries, the boat isn’t the S.S. Minnow. You’ll make it through this half-hour tour with just a bit of breeze blowing in your ears. Asking each other tough questions about how they each cope when compersion is harder to come by. They dive into their pre-Gin+Prof history and how that led them to dive into compersion with each other. Ginger and Prof also deconstruct jealousy, share when reconnecting is important, and noticing how each person experiences their emotions as strategies for cultivating compersion.…
Prof and Ginger tackle the conundrum that often in heterosexual relationships cross-gender friendships are considered odd, suspect, or even forbidden. Reflecting on their own experiences with sexy and “platonimous” friendships, they deconstruct the damaging cultural expectations for friendship when in relationships. Their take on open friendships means respecting each human deserves their own meaningful connections regardless of gender or relationship construct. Strategies for enjoying these friendships and reframes of expectations can create deeper trust and more fulfilling partnerships. Interested in traveling to Desire with Ginger and Prof in April 2016? Email Ginger for details at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com. Be the second listener…
Ginger and Prof spar a bit and share their strategies during an intimate conversation from bed. Finding escape in each other rather than escape from each other is a key component to being your partner’s biggest fan. This relationship philosophy holds compersion and generosity are necessary gifts to give one another through both challenging and smooth times. Interested in traveling to Desire with Ginger and Prof in April 2016? Email Ginger for details at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com. Be the first to review Intellectual Foreplay on iTunes! Connect with Ginger and Prof on Twitter @gingerntheprof @intelforeplay. Also follow @ontheswingset and @swingsetFM for all…
On this inaugural episode of Intellectual Foreplay, Prof and Ginger discuss curiosity. Remaining curious about one another through their 20+ year relationship has cultivated a deep love and a playful vibe. They share their strategies and motivations in getting to know other people, using a beginners mind in exploring new relationships, and how they cultivate curiosity within their own relationship to stay connected with each other. Whether you are of the swing, open, poly, or monogamous persuasion, Ginger and the Professor offer insights into building the heat in your relationships.