Since Anne and I opened up to our new neighbor friends about our lifestyle. Things have gotten interesting. As one would suspect, Mrs. Neighbor told Mr. Neighbor about it. When we were setting up plans to hang out again once Mr. Neighbor was back in town, I asked if she had told him about us and if we scared him. With a slight smile she replied, “Actually it’s quite the opposite.” The following weekend we got together at their place. The Neighbors made us dinner and served us wine. We talked about all sort of things, but after assuring Mrs.…
Author: Jack
Jack
An average suburbanite barely into his 30s, Jack has recently begun a more exciting secret sexy life with his wife, Anne. These experiences have led him to preach the gospel of sex positivity and safer sex to anyone who will listen.
Recently Anne and I have become very good friends with a couple just down the street. All of our other good friends know about us being in the lifestyle, swinging, progressively swinging, having an open relationship, whatever we technically do. These neighbors are awesome on all counts, but we weren’t sure when or if to let them know about our relationship(s). It isn’t something we necessarily hide, but it also isn’t something you just tell people right when you meet them. However, about a month after we met them and our friendship was blooming an opportunity arose. Mr. Neighbor was…
Anne and I have been out of the scene for a bit. I don’t really know why. Obviously because of this these blog posts have slowed to a trickle. I think this is just the natural ebb and flow of our own relationship. Everything seems cyclical sometimes. Flowing back and forth. Focusing on us and bringing others to bed. High libido and low libido. Stress and relaxation. Meeting new people and seeing old friends. All of these things and more come and go at different times. Sometimes things get in the way. A while back I wrote about some newbies.…
The LELO Billy is part of LELO’s Homme line of products and is billed as “The Most Sophisticated Gentleman’s G-spot Massager” on LELO’s website. LELO has created a beautiful and fun product in the Billy, but I am not convinced that sophisticated is the right word. I found the Billy to be a fairly straightforward and simple prostate toy that has a few flaws. The Billy arrived as with all LELO toys in a very high quality box containing the Billy, a charger, and a cloth bag for storage. The toy itself looks very similar to other high-end LELO vibrators. The phallus…
I finally told most of my friends about being bisexual. I had talked about wanting to tell people previously. A lot of my good and long time friends came into town to celebrate the 30th birthday of one of our friends, though he was not yet in town. The rest of us had gathered at a bar that eventually led us back to someone’s house. As usual when we all get together the drinks did floweth. At some point I was talking about how I decided to brush my teeth that morning with my left hand. For the record, it…
On Anne and my’s last date something new happened to me. Well, new things or at least variations on things happen all the time, but this I found especially exciting. I was fingered. I hope you had to do a double take to see the name of the author. I am a man. Now, Anne and I are very exploratory in our personal sexcapades, but anal play is not something she has never really had much interest in. She is slowly working towards it because she knows I like it. I don’t push her and she moves at her own…
I was pleasantly surprised by the Ridge Rider by Nexus. I don’t think I have ever used a prostate toy that was bad, but some are clearly better than others. I ended up liking the Ridge Rider way more than I thought I would. The Ridge Rider is constructed of high-grade silicone that is pleasant and silky to the touch. It is of moderate size, which I enjoyed. It gave me the full feeling without taking a lot of work to insert. The Ridge Rider also has the standard “T” shape of most prostate massagers with some features missing and some new ones…
One skill I have definitely learned through my journey of non-monogamy is communication. It just doesn’t work unless everyone can communicate what they need and what they fear. This should be obvious, but sometimes it isn’t.
Very few people know that I am bisexual, only a few close friends, not even all of my close friends. I really have given up on hiding it. I recently posted this picture of Neville Longbottom and the Harry Potter boys on a gaming forum that a group of friends and I use. Totally agree with it. No one questioned my posting it. The ladies agreed and the men seemed to mostly ignore it. I have gotten less concerned about what people perceive about me. Just the other day I was out to lunch with some male (this is an…
Lately I have been noticing a trend. It is entirely probable that this is just a trend with people that I know. This trend is specifically people wanting to take things back to their roots and by roots I mean pre-agricultural times. This even extends to myself.