I get tested regularly. I’m always careful to use condoms with partners (except my fluid-bonded primary). I don’t engage in oral sex if I have canker sores. You’re getting the idea that I’m pretty careful. You can imagine my shock then when I got a call from the STI testing company while at a client. No, I missed the call. The voice mail that I needed to call back to schedule a time to talk to one of the doctors. There were no details, but as I called back and scheduled my callback time, my heart was racing and I was close…
Author: Mr_Pent
Mr_Pent
Mr_Pent has a thirst for knowledge and enjoys sharing it with anyone interested. He is on a mission to bring together the various non-monogamous, kinky, and queer communities whenever possible. A penetration tester by day AND night, this kinkster can usually be found hanging out with a partner in a dungeon, moderating personals on Reddit, or enjoying city life.
I hosted my second play party last weekend and it was awesome. Okay, now that the humblebrag is out of the way, here’s what made it different and contributed to the awesomeness: I’ve been to play parties before. Ones hosted by friends, ones hosted by swinger clubs, ones hosted at dungeons. And while they’ve been really fun, they can definitely be quite intimidating to new people. Beforehand you get to see the guest list and maybe even some details about who is coming, depending on what site you are using to RSVP with. Sure, you could reach out to people…
I went to an awesome party with lots of great people last night. And I had a really fun time helping my primary achieve some major fantasies of hers. I have some fun bite marks to prove it, even. But I came to the party really excited to meet new people and play with someone(s). And I did meet people, as per the usual. And as per the usual, I did not play. I’m realizing I’m just really bad at asking people for what I want. Maybe out of fear of rejection? But in a setting like that, even a…