Author: Mrs Doubleplay

We are back after taking a four month hiatus from the lifestyle. Mrs. D was out of the country travelling for business in places where the lifestyle doesn’t really exist at all. In this country, Mrs. D wearing a one piece bathing suit caused eyebrows to raise, let alone her usual sexy attire. We have been anxious to get back into the mix since she returned. Scanning the possibilities for a Saturday night, we ended up deciding to hit the road and visit a club a couple of hours away from us. It seemed to have the most attractive guest…

On our plane flight back home from Desire, Mr. Doubleplay and I reflected on our transition back to reality, including: 10. Flashing my boobs does not bring my drinks faster or get me a second serve in beach volleyball–at least not without causing quite a commotion! 9. No coochie coochie in a public hot tub 8. Poles are not an invitation for a sexy dance 7. Appetizers no longer mean finding some playmates to get naughty with before dinner 6. Stiletto heels and a thong are no longer the starting point for getting dressed each evening 5. And I actually…

During this trip to Desire, the ratio of nudists to Lifestyle couples was a about fifty-fifty. We were disappointed when we would talk to a hot couple and then learn that they didn’t play. Starting only at 50 percent, and then subtracting couples that were of different generation, body type, and so on meant we hung with a small crowd in the end. But I had lots of fun with one nudist couple, doing my best to gently turn them to the dark side. We sat next to this couple at dinner and really enjoyed the conversation. They were no…

The focal point of fun at Desire is happy hour at the hot tub. It is a great time to meet new couples who have recently arrived. With about 40 people drinking and soaking, it is easy to get to know others.

We joined a group of couples the other night to celebrate the birthday of a lifestyle friend of ours (whom Mr D gave quite a ride on the sex swing). We started out at dinner at a local pub with plans for dancing and then who knows what next. At the table we had five couples. We sat next to a biker couple who we had chatted with online but never met, and across from the birthday couple. The two couples on the end included our Sweet Young Thing couple (see previous blogs). They were meeting the birthday girl for…

We are learning more about the differences between full and soft swap. A big one seems to be the numbers game. We have always liked group play. As a soft swap couple, give us a six-some  and we are happily like kids in a candy store sucking and licking and touching all around. Six is really ideal in soft swap. Enough to fit on one bed but tons of combinations. The other night we were out partying with two couples. Both are full swap. I had unfinished business with the guy so I had my sights set on him. We…

With our Desire trip imminent, much of my time this week was spent on grooming. Mani/pedi today, haircut tomorrow, and then the day before the trip—the wax.  Plus trips this week to the tanning salon and an hour in front of the mirror today tweezing eyebrows, facial hair, hair around the breasts. Endless! I am amazed how the lifestyle has made both Mr. Doubleplay and I extra conscious of our bodies and anxious to keep them tuned-up and presentable. While I’ve always been a gym fanatic, we definitely keep an eye on the scale much more than we had before…

Mr. Doubleplay spoke of how he loves that he is allowed to let his eyes wander now. You can sample the buffet of women out there with permission. No need to hide it!

I have fake boobs. I got them three years ago. I love my girls. They are silicone and bring me to almost a C. Not va va voom but I sure am proportional now in all the right places. It was one of the best decisions I have ever made. I love how I look with them

Ethical Slut, in her October 7, 2011 blog raised the question of how much of our “lifestyle” we should share with our children.