Author: Life on the Swingset

When we talk about privilege, it’s usually a matter of race and class, and boils down to us not seeing or not even knowing to look for the issues that others face. Andrew Gurza, our guest tonight, is a Disability Awareness Consultant and Cripple Content Creator, and they join joins Cooper, Dylan, Dr. Liz Powell, and Mike Joseph to talk with us about how disability impacts life, the enormous breadth of the subject across the spectrum of sexuality, race, and class, and how it applies to living an alternative sexual lifestyle. We discussed the intersection between sexuality, disability, and queerness,…

There is a sort of order from chaos that happens when like minded people discover others like themselves. Individuals become clusters, clusters become groups, and with groups come unavoidable growing pains, issues, conflict, and struggle. Still, there’s a certain magic that comes from having a group of diverse and motivated people with a common role come together to build something, because when you get it right, you end up with a community. Community role models are essential and tonight, Kevin Patterson joins Cooper, Dylan, Dirty Lola, and Mike Joseph to discuss poly role models and the joys and struggles involved with building sex…

After seven years of podcasting, it’s rather shocking to us how much we put of our lives out into the ether. A podcast can be very much like a living document in that way. What compels us to share so much of ourselves? Probably some narcissism, but also an innate belief that personal information breeds empathy and understanding. Tonight we talk about sharing and oversharing with Cooper, Dylan, Dirty Lola, Mike Joseph, Dr. Liz Powell, Kinky Jean, and Lucas Brooks to talk about putting our lives out in the open, out on stage. You can support us while you…

Tonight we celebrate two things, first, our 7th anniversary as a podcast, and second our first takeover of Desire Resort last November. It’s no secret that there’s been some…stuff…happening in the world. As that stuff started on our trip, we’ve been a little…loath to revisit. But now, to celebrate our anniversary, we have assembled an epic podcast panel including Cooper, Dylan, Mister Pent, Lyndzi, Dr. Liz Powell, J.V. Altharas, and Shara Bono to all talk about this thing, this special resort, this place unequaled in time and space, Desire Resort and Spa. You can support us while you buy great…

Hello Swingset Fans and welcome to Desire week on the Swingset! The following podcast was recorded at Desire in November 2016 and features Duncan and Mrs. Duncan, Jeff and Francine, Swinger Doc and Sexy Pixie, Ropemaster and his lovely and of course, JV and Shara. If you want to join us in Desire from November 4th to the 11th in 2017, well, hurry up! We are over 50% booked and yes… 51% does count as over 50%. ? So visit SSDESIRE.com for information on pricing and booking and when you do you’ll be joining us for our second full takeover…

Hello Swingset Fans and welcome to Desire week on the Swingset! The following podcast was recorded at Desire in November 2016 and features Dr. Liz Powell, Chris aka. Mister Pent, and myself, and it is The Gentleperverts Social Club. If you want to join us in Desire from November 4th to the 11th in 2017, well, hurry up! We are over 50% booked and yes… 51% does count as over 50%. 🙂 So visit SSDESIRE.com for information on pricing and booking and when you do you’ll be joining us for our second full takeover of Desire. While enjoying time at…

You’re all sexy and sophisticated human beings, You understand your sexuality and you enjoy both giving and receiving pleasure. Once you’ve figured all that out about yourself, where do you go? What do you do next? Tonight we talk about how to best accessorize your sexy life, from dildos and vibrators, to rolls of saran wrap and condoms, to Liberator throes and sex furniture. We’ve created a list of all the items we discussed on the podcast! Dildos, Plug, and Harnesses Carter Pack and Play Silicone Dildo – New York Toy Collective Joque Harness – SpareParts Pure Wand Double Ended…

It’s no secret that women may have dramatically different experiences entering into the non-monogamous world than men, whether it’s exploring dating on OkCupid, charting a path through swinger parties, or being a third in a couples’ relationship. Dedeker Winston, co-host of Swingset.FM’s Multiamory, and author of the new book The Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory joins Dylan Thomas, Dr. Liz Powell, Mike Joseph, and Cooper S. Beckett to discuss gender and feminism within non-monogamy. As you listen, don’t forget to tweet at #sspodcast! You can support us while you buy great sex toys and products from our favorite online retailer SheVibe at lifeontheswingset.com/shevibe. …

Used to be, we’d talk pretty endlessly about our sexual activity on this podcast, to the point where our MOST NEGATIVE REVIEW EVER called us out for it. But that’s ages ago, and it’s been quite a while, and we’re feeling a little indulgent and want to have some sexy conversation. You may as well just slap the #explanabrag hashtag right on here, cuz that’s what Dylan Thomas, Cooper S. Beckett, Dr. Liz Powell, Mike Joseph, and Dirty Lola are doing tonight! We each tell some of our most recent sexy stories… stories including rimming, threesomes, pegging, anal, rimming, blowjobs,…

It seems to happen like clockwork. Someone cheats, or gets caught in some sort of sex scandal. They have to make amends, show that they’re working to fix “the problem” so they can return to their normal lives. While we on the Swingset happen to think that many of their normal lives might’ve been improved with open and honest conversations about monogamy, so often they fall back to the excuses of “I’m addicted to sex” and failing that, “I’m addicted to porn.” It’s widespread and it’s been propagated by early friend to open sexual discussion Dr. Drew (who has since…