Author: Life on the Swingset

It’s Desire Week at Life on the Swingset, with 150 days and less than 25 rooms remaining for our 2016 Desire Takeover (November 5-12) we’re running Desire episodes of the podcast as well as blogs and articles. If you’d like to join us in Desire this November, head over to SSDesire.com! It’s booking fast! Desire. It’s an emotion, raw and real. It’s a place, warm and inviting, November 7th through the 14th of 2015, we made it our space. We brought 79 (and a half, thanks to the amazing Kendra Holliday) couples to Cancun, to the Riviera Maya, to Mexico,…

Ginger and Cooper continue to gang bang that mailbag! Tonight we answer questions about being given the go ahead to be open and then having it revoked, what it's like to be an introvert at a swing club, if voyeurism is allowed at clubs, difficulties playing separately, and transitioning from a swing relationship to a

We're scaling back a little at The Swingset to allow ourselves to take some needed rest. This has caused Dylan to go off to The Dakotas to hunt mastodon. Meanwhile, Ginger and Cooper hold down the fort, debating whether or not two people can in fact gang bang a mailbag. Tonight we answer questions about

“Pegging Enthusiast” isn’t just Cooper’s motto… it’s his mission statement. One of the most specific sex acts, named in a contest by Dan Savage’s Savage Love Readers, pegging is when a woman wearing a strap-on fucks a man in the ass. We’ve talked about it off and on over the years, always couched in the broader topic of anal play, but tonight we’re going to give it its due. There’s only one person who can be called master on this subject. The progenitor of the Pegging Paradise podcast, Ruby Ryder is here to talk about it with us. We mentioned…

We’ve talked of group sex and orgies often, the logistics of sex and play parties, of mfm threesomes, and somehow danced around the actual genesis for our mailbag titles. It so happens that we know Jennifer, a frequent gang bang center of attention, and co planning conspirator, so we discuss the many ins and outs of gang bangs tonight! You can find Jennifer at her blog, Willful Girl! Leave us a comment on this post or at contact@lifeontheswingset.com or leave us a voicemail at 573-55-SWING (573-557-9464). Find Cooper on Twitter @CooperSBeckett, Dylan on Twitter @DylanTheThomas, Mr. Pent on Twitter @mr_pent, and Kat…

Today’s episode features me, Dylan, speaking with Daisy, Dawn Ardent, Damien, and Duncan as we chat about our community and how we enjoy those of us in the community…thoroughly, being closeted, and loss. I mentioned we on the Swingset needed a break and it looks like we’ve gotten it. Soon you’ll do away with the tyranny of Dylan Thomas and you’ll once again have the comfortable and familiar tyranny of Cooper S. Beckett to look forward to. We’re recording an episode on Pegging with the…always outstanding Ruby Ryder, and an episode on Gang Bangs with a friend of…

Hi Swingset Fans! Dylan Theodore Thomas here, (yes we’ve decided my middle name is Theodore) Over the last six years, Life on the Swingset has grown into more than the sum of its parts. It’s a podcast, it’s a community, it’s a podcasting network, it’s a family, One of the best parts of being here and being with you all is introducing you to new members of the family. Shaina, known as @LoveNSausages on Twitter, is a monogamous, con brat,  happily vanilla, sex positive explorer, and a frequent visitor on /r/TrollXChromosomes on Reddit! Magenta Prex, known as @geekymagenta on Twitter,…

This isn’t a regular episode. Dylan grabs the mic and takes over for a monologue on stress, thinking about being closeted, and intersectionality. In between all that Morgan tells us how Swinging is her stress relief. You can read more about Mississippi’s HB1523 on NPR, here. This really sums it up: “the Mississippi legislation protects only three beliefs or convictions: that marriage is between a man and a woman, that sex is “properly reserved to such a marriage,” and that words like “male” and “female” are “objectively determined by anatomy and genetics at birth.” You can come along with…

Often our discussion of swinging travels down the traditional “norms” of the subculture, a couple, a man and woman, having sex with other couples. But we all know that any subculture is full of iteration after iteration of variance. Tonight we’re going to talk about one of the oft overlooked swinging groups, lesbians. And as we’re definitely not qualified to speak on the subject, we’ve brought two amazing women, Tiff & Rachel, hosts of the Sapphic Swingers podcast to have this discussion with us. You can find the Sapphic Swingers on twitter @sapphicswingers and their podcast at http://sapphicswingers.blogspot.com/ Support Life on…

Abuse isn’t discussed the same way we discuss other issues in our communities. Otherwise well meaning people sometimes end up working to silence victims of abuse when they need community support the most. People in groups tend to respond poorly when someone or something threatens the group dynamic and often, victims take the brunt of that response. With forethought, preparation, and a commitment to support people who speak out, communities can work through and survive abuse. You can find Ginny Brown on twitter @lirelyn, on Everyday Feminism, and at The Brunette’s Blog. You can find Pepper Mint on…