Author: Life on the Swingset

Jean Franzblau, speaker, writer and performer of the one woman show “Coming Out Kinky: A Grown Up Comedy” joins us for a discussion of her show as well as a performed excerpt, and a discussion on being kinky in general and what it means to show that to the world. Give us a call and leave a voicemail at 573-55-SWING, (573-557-9464), we want your stories, your orgasms, your everything! Join us at CatalystCon West September 11-14 – use the promo code SWINGSET to save $10 off your pass! Want to help our friends at Burlesque Toy Shop get their first…

After the explosive finale of last March’s CatalystCon East, we bring Dee Dennis back on the show to discuss how hard it often is to get a dialog going about sex without having dissent everywhere. We try to parse the value of community vs being snarky, and Cooper drops the shocking revelation that sometimes he is controversial. Listen to Betty Dodson’s Closing Keynote here to judge for yourself. Join us at CatalystCon West September 11-14 – use the promo code SWINGSET to save $10 off your pass! Want to help our friends at Burlesque Toy Shop get their first brick…

It’s bizarro world and Life on the Swingset is going FULL SWAP. The Professor hosts this round table discussion featuring the partners of the Swingset, Ophilia Tesla, Tonia Thomas, and Ronin Technogeisha. They discuss being behind the scenes, putting up with the Swingset, their experience in the lifestyle, their desires and hopes, and quickly run out of time. Want to help our friends at Burlesque Toy Shop get their first brick and mortar boutique off the ground in Philadelphia? Head over to their indiegogo campaign and pledge. Some great pledge prizes to be had, including a LELO Mona 2 for…

We’re all evangelists for our lifestyles. We’re not trying to convince people to try it out, we’re there to offer our own experiences, to story tell, to educate when people ask for more information, and when people are ready to hop in, at least for us swingers, we all seem to make the same mistake. “Also, women run the lifestyle!” We unpack the sentiment, the history, and the reality behind the statement and the contention that the lifestyle is female run in swinging in tonight’s podcast. Want to help our friends at Burlesque Toy Shop get their first brick and…

A couple months ago we tackled the topic of flirting, and how it’s rather essential to sexy interaction, rather exponentially expanded for non-monogamy. Tonight on Life on the Swingset: The Podcast we’re going to turn that flirty talk into sexy talk and discuss talking dirty: how, when, why, and what’s too much. We also take the time to answer an extended listener voicemail about equal rights, gay marriage, and the civil rights movement. Want to help our friends at Burlesque Toy Shop get their first brick and mortar boutique off the ground in Philadelphia? Head over to their indiegogo campaign…

We get a response from a listener about our DP episode, as well as an eye opening picture (which we refuse to share!) We discuss speaking up in the moment, solo cheating males, unicorns, girl girl only play, the one penis policy, stretch marks, and bad swinging experiences.

We’re back, and we gang bang the ever willing mailbag filled with your questions! We talk about chasing the white whale, a potential fluid bonding statute of limitations, cold sores (hsv1) and kissing protocol, and swinging & fairness. Dylan also talks about the “unfuckables”. Visit the Burlesque Toyshop to pick up the equipment to exercise your kegels for stronger orgasms while saving 20% when you use the promo code swingburlesque at checkout! Pick up the Je Joue Ami Balls and start your workout now!! Give us a call and leave a voicemail at 573-55-SWING, (573-557-9464), we want your stories, your…

In many ways, swinging is a lot like regular online dating, searching through profiles, reaching out via email. In one way, it’s not so much. Naked pictures. Oh, sure, regular online dating involves a lot of naked pictures these days too, but it’s rare that you see someone naked BEFORE you decide to contact them. The value of good naked pics on a swinger profile is very high, and so tonight on Life on the Swingset the podcast, we’re talking about taking them, and posing for them, and we’re joined by the amazing Elle Chase, the Lady Cheeky who has…

Tonight on Life on the Swingset, The Podcast, we’re going back to basics for another episode of Swinging For Dummies. In the series thus far we’ve talked about realizing you’re interested in non-monogamy, talking to your partner, group sex, sexy vacations, and swinging websites. But how about that ever important first date. How to prepare, how to engage, how to transition to playtime, and how to make sure there’s a second date. Visit the Burlesque Toyshop and get a 20% discount when you use the promo code swingburlesque at checkout! Check out the AMAZING nJoy Pure Wand to stimulate your…

We’re all well aware of the risks inherent with sex, and we don’t always like to use those barriers that keep us safe. From gloves and dental dams to the almighty condom, eroticizing barriers is what helps make them part of our sexuality and safety instead of “this thing we have to do.” Tonight we’re joined by Melissa White, CEO of our favorite online condom company Lucky Bloke to talk about how to make safer sex sexier. Visit the Burlesque Toyshop and get a 20% discount when you use the promo code swingburlesque at checkout! Check out Lelo Ella and…