Today we hit the mailbag hard… harder than usual. We like our mailbag and we received a metric ton of your questions! We talked about cream pies and how to play safer, with a detour about ethical swinging, food allergies and play parties, declining sex lives due to illness, and blogging your experiences on the Internet. We also took time to catch up with our favorite Technogeisha, Miko, and get an update on her life! Ginger is taking a brief break, she’s crossing the Yukon sipping on tequila on a dog sled and being a general bad-ass. She’ll be back…
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Life on the Swingset
A podcast about swinging, polyamory, open relationships, and "the lifestyle" from the trenches. A diverse group tackles many issues involved with non-monogamy and what it means to be a swinger or polyamorous from the point of view of educating and illuminating what, for many, is a confusing journey to start on. Subscribe on iTunes Subscribe on Stitcher Subscribe via RSS
You don’t know any swingers in person. You don’t know where any clubs are. You’re eager, wide eyed, and ready to explore sexiness with others. Luckily the Swingset has been there and we found our way out! We discuss posting profiles online, we go through the basics of what to include in a profile, how pictures affect how other swingers perceive you and how you perceive them, protecting privacy, preferences, and rules, and what most turns us on AND off when we visit a new swinger profile. Interested in signing up for our favorite Lifestyle site Kasidie.com? Click here to…
We had every intention about talking about swinger bloopers this episode. It stayed in our heads while we went through business… then went through some more business… then we lost it and ended up talking about “the long game”, some relationship updates, and just general non-monogamy and how living this lifestyle is out in the real world. So, please enjoy our accidentally off-topic update show! Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, SWINGSET for a 10% discount! Check out Smitten Kitten Massage Oil Candles!
Cooper, Shira, Ginger, and The Professor ™ all get together for a discussion on kissing; why it’s a big deal, why some swingers make rules against it, how it feels great… how badly you can screw it up! Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, SWINGSET for a 10% discount! Check out the LELO Gigi Rechargeable Vibrator!
Shira B. Katz makes her triumphant return with a considerable discussion about impermanence and how the changes in her and both Cooper’s relationships statuses have affected their views on non-monogamy and their own sexuality, and how… that is ok. We also worked some Law and Order, Doctor Who, and “cream” as a verb into the discussion. Check it out! Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, SWINGSET for a 10% discount! Check out Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide to Female Ejaculation!
Riding herd on the Swingset isn’t something you forget. Ginger isn’t ready to put it behind her, so she holds on to the reigns and rides harder; we discuss our best erotic moments as swingers, explanabrags via managing multiple but separate partner issues, and we watch Cooper devolve into Domina’s pet! Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, SWINGSET for a 10% discount! Check out the Eroscillator Plus Electric Clitoral Vibrator!
Ginger Bentham takes over the Swingset today to ask questions we may never have directly addressed. Our Domina inquires about condom disasters, our biggest turn-offs, and how to approach a big group of people. We also get to see a peek into Ginger and the Prof’s relationship dynamic, it’s pretty wonderful! Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, SWINGSET for a 10% discount! Check out Kimono MicroThin Comdoms!
In this very special (non)episode of Life on the Swingset, Ginger Bentham and Cooper Beckett do a dramatic reading of the recent Anthony Weiner twitter scandel “reported on” by The Dirty We would again like to insist that this is all alleged, and if Anthony Weiner was on the up and up with all involved, we at Swingset have no problem with this at all. In fact, it’d be nice to see a mayor who acknowledges certain proclivities. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, SWINGSET for a 10% discount!
We listened to your voicemail (left at 573-55-SWING) and read your e-mail (sent to contact@lifeontheswingset.com) and decided to throw it all in the bag and gang bang it! We attack all your questions starting with questions about whether Dylan and Cooper really practice safe oral sex, chat about Orson Scott Card, listen to someone keep their sexual play preferences from a partner, and wonder why… WHY Dylan would remind everyone about Jurassic Bark. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online and use our discount code, SWINGSET for a 10% discount! Check out the RodeoH Boxer Harness!
Everyone on the Swingset has been through an extended period of life where… there’s just nothing left to give. Shira B. Katz has a new job but can’t make the time to join us every week (but she will be back!), Ginger, Cooper, AND Dylan have all moved recently. But in between everything, life happens. Ginger chats about a surprise visit from The RopeMaster ™, Cooper talks a little about his divorce and the process of going through one through the lens of non-monogamy, and Dylan… well he just talks, but he’s a credit to team. The bottom line is…