Author: Life on the Swingset

A podcast about swinging, polyamory, open relationships, and "the lifestyle" from the trenches. A diverse group tackles many issues involved with non-monogamy and what it means to be a swinger or polyamorous from the point of view of educating and illuminating what, for many, is a confusing journey to start on. Subscribe on iTunes Subscribe on Stitcher Subscribe via RSS

After an intense experience in the hot tub at Desire Resort & Spa with Life on the Swingset, Marilyn and The Professor sit down to talk about the role of energy play and Reiki, a trip to A Touch of Magic Massage by Claudia, and what a skeptic Cooper is in this special recorded in Desire!

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When the Swingers are away the Katz will play! Shira B. Katz has taken over the Swingset, and has enlisted her husband of mythical proportions Gavin Katz.  The hosts of Pedestrian Polyamory (cheap plug) aren’t necessarily talking about Polyamory this week, but their ventures into a Swinger party.  Comparisons are made between the two cultures, Shira wants to ride the Swing Train, and Gavin wants to hit her with one. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online store! (Don’t forget the discount code, “swingset” for a 10% discount!)

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We’re up for a second round of double penetration! That’d be double, double penetration…. Hmm… Anyway, We’re back with questions about what to do about party invitations when you have a couple that breaks up, bringing up the cultivation of poly relationships with swinger friends, long distance relationships, partners leaving the lifestyle and potentially their relationships, being and dealing with self-consciousness about cock performance and size, the “genderless”, the difference between healthy and unhealthy swinger relationships, and… Equality in freedom to explore. We covered quite a bit of ground on this episode. Take a listen, strap on those thigh dildos,…

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Today on Life on the Swingset, the Podcast, we take your questions and give you sweet, delicious, custard filled answers. We talk about metamoures not getting along, reading your partners’ e-mails, the struggle to decide whether to let a swing partner cum inside your partner, swinging with a cancer conquering sexy body, our horrible, horrible fetlife profiles, our opi… well ok we covered a lot today and we’ll cover a lot next week as we run hot right up to the edge of our trip to Desire. Check out the Joque Harness by Spareparts at the Smitten Kitten Online store!…

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We’ve long been fans of Cunning Minx here at Life on the Swingset, and her long running podcast Polyamory Weekly. Because of this, we were thrilled to catch up with her at Open SF this past June and even more thrilled to start some cross pollination (that one is for you, Shira B) by first having her on our show to talk about the art of The Pick Up (but not pickup artists) and then joining her on her show to continue to flog our Progressive Swinging horse. So listen to it right here (and still subscribe to Polyamory Weekly, cuz…

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Kendra Holliday joins us in a discussion on how to be open and sex positive while still staying friendly and approachable. Our discussion heats up when Dylan suggests that he misses Rick Santorum competing for the Republican presidential nomination because it was such a great opportunity to discuss sex positivity in comparison to the extreme positions Santorum took on… well everything from sex’s role to women’s health, and cools back down once we all figured out that we’re all best served by having calm reasoned discussions with people we disagree with… Who knew?! Check out the Talula G2 Dildo by…

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Two years ago a woman by the name of TBK visited us here on the Swingset to talk about her life, and her website, The Beautiful Kind. We heard back from her after she came out as Kendra Holliday and listened as she described the liberation of being out and the frustration of being under attack from all sides for her decision. Today she rejoins us and lets us know how she’s progressed on her journey from a simple webmistress to a founder of Sex Positive St. Louis, as an activist, as a mother, and as a woman. Join the Swingset crew…

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A listener’s story about the unreasonable request from a swing friend for the husband in a couple to impregnate her, leads us into a discussion about what is acceptable and not to ask of your partners in swinging & polyamory, and also what to do when the dreaded drama rears its ugly head. Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012!

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Our good friends SFCuties asked us, “Is there a swinger version of PolySaturated, and what would it be called?” We take on this challenge tonight, going through what it feels like to experience polysaturation and smitten with what we call, “swing overload”. Shira B. Katz regales us with tales of her time at Burning Man including good times at the indoor air-conditioned sex dome, which then disintegrated into discussion about body odors in the context of orgies. Join the Swingset crew at Desire Resort & Spa from November 3-10, 2012!

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Once again Cooper shuffles over to the virtual Internet post office for the arduous job of sifting through all the spam, trolls, and coupon savers so that we can answer your questions as we gangbang the mailbag once more! Tonight we chat about the Bad-Dragon “Medium” sized Anthro-Dragon Dildo, a question about whether divorce or cheating is ever appropriate or “the right thing”,  a question about averting a situation about to go nuclear, a question forwarded to us by J.V. Altharas from Ending the Sexual Dark Age about how to approach a new party situation, and a question about different types…

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