My husband and I have been in the Lifestyle for almost ten years now. We’ve made the increasingly common migration from swingers to poly. These days, we are an early forties poly couple looking for a husband. I’ve spent the summer seeking, but without much luck. Over the years, we have learned that I am the pickier partner. Time has shown us that my husband is usually willing to be with any man that I would be interested in having sex with. The reverse is not true and this led to a few awkward dates in our early swinging years. …