Let me start this off with a confession. I am vanilla, completely and totally. And while I might be a Superman of the vanilla sex world, in the Swingset world, I would be a mild mannered Clark Kent. I am however, a strong believer in masturbation. I believe that everyone, male and female, after a certain age (too early can be debilitating, not liberating) should masturbate, And often. Sadly, ever since my friend step by step explained to me how I could climax 8 years ago, I have been a bit of a one trick pony. Though I may believe…