Author: She Said

Mr. Said and I have been in this deal for a relatively short amount of time.  Initially, we thought that the best way to protect our relationship from emotional entanglement with others was to meet a couple, determine whether or not we clicked, and then play if we did.  Maybe we would consider playing with that same couple twice or three times if the interaction was firing on all cylinders.  We figured that we would ultimately determine some arbitrary cap on the number of times we played.  Ah, how theory changes when reality sets itself firmly in place. Mr. Said…

Mr. Said posted about our second swing experience last Saturday night. If you haven’t read it yet, do that (I’ll wait), because I’m only going to piggy-back off of it with more details and my perspective. After our first not-so-hot swap experience, I was feeling a little down but was game to try again with a couple who fell a closer to the bull’s eye for us. Our second experience went a LONG way toward restoring my enthusiasm for making the effort to find compatible playmates and then enjoying rip-roaring sexy times with them. My expectations for actually getting it…