I’ve been swinging on and off for years as a single guy. Just over a year ago I met a woman who’s kinky and pretty open minded and into trying BDSM. I hoped that I could draw her into swinging but she’s very reticent about getting started despite her wanting us both to try some bi fun. My best efforts in making her feel secure in our relationship don’t seem to be working as she still struggles with taking that first step. I’m finding it frustrating because I’m missing the lifestyle but don’t want to ruin what we have now.
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So how does swinging work if you are only sexually interested in one of the partners? Should you avoid them? Do you stand the risk of hurting the other side of the partnership if you are not interested in women or is this normal?
What is the best way to meet another woman that are open to the lifestyle. I figured a single woman at a lifestyle event would be as good a place to start as any, but there are very few events that welcome single men.
I am the jealous one, when it comes to my husband being with another woman. My husband is completely fine with wanting me to be with another man. I have finally come to grasps with this and I am ready to try swinging. I however want to be able to please my husband in every way possible in the future
A new couple, emboldened by an upcoming swinger cruise, wonder about the right time to talk about opening up in non monogamy and swinging
Ginger tells poor J what to do when a first swinging date turns bad with broken rules and hurt feelings
Q: My boyfriend and I are considering an open relationship. We are happy and in love and I am content with him as my only sexual partner, but he misses the freedom of being able to flirt and be a pick-up artist at the bars. I think I could get used to him having sex with other women, but I don’t feel the urge to explore sexually with other men. Could it work to be in a one-sided open relationship?…or is that doomed to lead to trouble?
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Ginger answers a couple whose question is about infidelity leading to swinging, and gives advice for those couples on how to transition.