Ginger tells poor J what to do when a first swinging date turns bad with broken rules and hurt feelings
Articles about swinging, polyamory, and non-monogamy Life on the Swingset
I’ll never forget it. Prof and I were less than a month into a hot…
Rather than being simply all about the sex, for many swingers, the swinging lifestyle is actually about learning about themselves and growing as people. Our newest writer, Ivey Lane explores this.
What is swinger drama and why does it scare the crap out of everybody? We discuss drama between couples and drama within a couple, and how it’s a good idea to run run run as fast as you can away from both types.
Neamhspleachas talks about how competition can help in business and government, so when applied to non-monogamy, the appearance of competition can help improve the relationship.
Q: My boyfriend and I are considering an open relationship. We are happy and in love and I am content with him as my only sexual partner, but he misses the freedom of being able to flirt and be a pick-up artist at the bars. I think I could get used to him having sex with other women, but I don’t feel the urge to explore sexually with other men. Could it work to be in a one-sided open relationship?…or is that doomed to lead to trouble?
Cadence Rayne implores the Swingset readers to not exclude BDSM from their play life because it may seem a teeny bit scary, but instead to begin exploring.
We here at The Swingset are always happy to help with any questions or concerns…
Ginger answers a couple whose question is about infidelity leading to swinging, and gives advice for those couples on how to transition.
Kendra rails against the fact that many sex positive communities that proclaim themselves open and honest, and should know better, still feel the need to knock down other sex positive groups.