After some lifestyle experiences that have left us somewhat confused and questioning, we had a wonderful evening that reaffirmed why we are in the lifestyle in the first place. The evening was fun, sexy, and comfortable. No drama and some really hot times.
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Sandstone retreat, a safe haven for non-monogamy, swinging, and polyamory in the sixties comes under fire and must weather a storm of problems from all directions.
Mr. and Mrs. Softy are new to swinging. Read about how they first got the idea to play with other couples.
Sandstone Retreat, a haven of open sexuality in the swinging sixties, delivers a lesson about jealousy and what it means to be open.
So this is one of those blogs about a bad swinging experience. It was a misunderstanding. It’s all cleared up between Mr. Doubleplay and I, but it caused hurt feelings. And I believe that we’re stronger as a result. I share the details since hopefully it help other couples avoid dramas of their own. Because, truly, drama sucks in the swinging lifestyle. It should be fun. Vanilla life is drama enough!
The first mistake we made was not clarifying the line between dirty talk in the bedroom and what we wanted actually to happen in real life. After our weekend visit with the Ws (mentioned in previous blogs), we were getting ready to say our good byes. Mr. Doubleplay came up to me and said, “I’m going to help Lady W pack!” and headed to the bedroom. All of our kids were in the house and it wasn’t necessarily feasible for us all to join in. But I became increasingly uneasy about what was taking place in the bedroom. I had mentioned to Mr. Doubleplay during a hot round of sex just between the two of us that I would love if he would sweep Lady W away and had his way with her as a ‘welcome to our house’ gift. I didn’t really mean for him to do that, but he did.
Sometimes my husband makes me feel guilty about spending time with Kitten. He doesn’t do…
With her boorish partner out of her life, Payton is faced with re-entering the swinging lifestyle as a unicorn, a single woman, and how her relationships affect that and her.
Ginger and the Professor go on a blind date with a new couple whose pictures they haven’t seen
In the late sixties, the Sandstone Retreat was a community of free love, polyamory, and swinging, here is a first glimpse
Mrs Doubleplay realizes a number of things about her comfort level with playing after a hard swap situation in which the couples switched partners for the duration of the evening