I don’t have any issue whatsoever with using masturbators. I mean, most of you probably…
Today I was having a conversation with Holly about what people expect to get out of the lifestyle, and how different those expectations can often be. We came to the conclusion that the expectations people have are just as varied as their reasons for getting into the lifestyle in the first place. But one of the most varied expectations I’ve seen is the variety of interpretations of those looking for “friends first” in the lifestyle. (As opposed to the NSA [No Strings Attached] folk.) Marilyn and I fall into the so called friends first category, as do most of the lifestyle people we associate with. Though lately I’ve been thinking that this idea of friends first is really a misnomer. We’ve gotten to know people a bit, either by going on a date with them, talking to them online, or meeting them through one of our other friends. But have we really become FRIENDS at that point, before we hop into bed?
I am not the sum of the facts I have accumulated over my life but I am someone who compulsively accumulates facts. Molasses is my favorite coffee sweetener. If I’m not careful, I start to feel envious for the tiny … Continue reading →
One of my favorite scientists is Richard Feynman. I’m a HUGE fan. His work in physics was an vital stepping stone in our understanding of particle behavior but his process of working and the personality he brought is what continues … Continue reading →
Karl Marx wrote in Capital that capitalists are basically fetishists, worshipping mystical powers that workers impart to the goods they create (sounds like Prada to me). Before latex, fetishists had made do with what they had—fur, silk, and tight-laced corsets. That was … Continue reading →
My name is Zoe Hanis and I am polyamorous. I was recently invited to a…
OhMiBod’s Naughtibod Makes the Mistress Scream, “OhMiGod.” I’m slightly embarrassed and incredibly proud (yes, simultaneously)…
Recently Anne and I have become very good friends with a couple just down the…
I was thrilled when I found out I was going to get to try a…
Foreplay… it’s what we sometimes don’t have time for, but apparently what we all desperately…