Pepper Mint, polyamory blogger, activist, & organizer joins us for a dialog on why the swinging and polyamory camps still have trouble getting along. We rant about a swing club that has been shut down by the authorities. Cooper doesn’t want to “put baby in the corner” but finds it easy to shuffle Shira off to the poly side, but even she is shocked by the discussion of poly sex parties. Dylan is horrified to find that sometimes people want to move in after a month; and Ginger confesses her origin story involving Pepper.
Jealousy is very common in both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships. However, in monogamous relationships it’s much easier to engineer the way you and your partner interact with others to minimize activities that trigger jealousy. In poly relationships, you’re nearly guaranteed to regularly encounter jealousy in either yourself or your partners.
As the two weeks pass between setting the date and the date itself pass I see the Mr. online less and less. Something then came up at the last minute that forced Anne and I to reschedule. Since I hadn’t seem him online, I texted him and he informed me that it was not a problem to push it back a week. During that week he was not online at all. The night of the date I got a text and he informed me that the Mrs. had to work late and that they could not make it. I told him not to worry he could contact me online and we could reschedule.
As we have grown as a couple and individuals, we have entered into the world of polyamory. Ally is bisexual. We were both very secure with ourselves and our relationship, so after much discussion we decided to open our marriage.
What do you do, when we both want to watch, but no one wants to play with anyone else? Thanks in Advance, and thank you for all your hard work on the podcast.
“Can I have your Mom’s phone number?,” is a question that should never, under any…
“What a strange and funny like thing!” That was my first thought, and then I worried how it would feel while my husband was in me too! So the only thing to do was give it a test run. I slide it in and noticed right away the external vibe was at the right spot! (It’s so annoying when a rabbit doesn’t hit where it should!) This was perfect! Then as my husband slid in, I felt an increased pressure on my g-spot and to top it off it was vibrating! As he slide in and out the internal vibe kept tapping my g-spot! HEAVEN! And I have to tell you… he must have enjoyed it as much as I did, a few days later he was asking for it again!
WANTED: Male partner in crime with a sharp mind, sound body and tarnished soul for sexual exploration and debauchery. You must be strong willed, enjoy the rush of intensity and expect both from your partner. I’m seeking a man strong enough to take me, but secure enough to be taken. Dependability will be rewarded with the trust needed to push boundaries. I’m a challenge. Are you up for it?
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This weeks question comes from a couple who are hoping their friends are into swinging like they are.