I’m continually impressed with the live-and-let live attitude in the lifestyle, where it’s possible to create your own sexual manifesto as long as you don’t impose it on anyone else.

Once, much to my amusement, a vanilla friend of ours announced to a party we were attending that “Swinging is an urban myth.”

Uh oh! You heard the last podcast and were left wanting for juicy details? The second part of our Burning Man shows reveals exactly what happened between Dylan and the Majestic Woman he met at Burning Man 2011. You will also find out if there was love in the air for Shira B. Katz. Emotions run high in this heartfelt episode recorded just one week after Shira and Dylan return home from the Playa.

Before I tell you all about my experience with Spareparts Hardwear’s La Palma, I need to mention that as I’m writing this I have the glove on my right hand. It feels so comfortable on and plus, it looks super hot. The glove gives me this powerful in control feeling, like I’m in the driver’s seat to pleasuring someone; figured I might as well keep the feeling going as I’m writing my review to give my audience the best possible review I could of the La Palma.

Polyamorous relationships are notorious for not making it past the three year mark.. and many polyamorous relationships fall much shorter than even that. For a long time, that knowledge was a source of frustration for me. Yet another reason why polyamory is a less ‘valid’ relationship style, right? However, maybe it’s not a bug in the system. Maybe it’s a feature.

Cooper & Marilyn take a vacation to visit sexy friends from the Great White North. Dylan & Shira B. Katz haven’t been about to shut up about Burning Man and now you finally get to hear why. Listen as the crew discusses what Burning Man has to do with non-monogamy, who they camped with, and what a non-monogamous person can expect on the Playa. Ahoy! Burning Man; land of The Human Car(cass) Wash, The Snack Food Glory Hole, and a place where even the monogamous have an opportunity to open up a little.

So, yes, I shut down the site, rather entirely, for almost three weeks. Newer readers probably didn’t notice because the site was cycling through some of our old content, but there was certainly no NEW content being posted. It’s not that I was out of content, mind you, it’s that I was out of enthusiasm. You see, when I began Swingset it was intended to function not only as an educational resource for swingers, but a home to my personal swinging blog. A way I could write about the experiences and questions I’m having; a way I could get these thoughts out into the world. It WAS that for a time as well.

Dylan here – I visited Burning Man this year, and while I fully expected to have a mind-blowing experience, I found myself wrapped up in the loving arms of another woman, and unable to completely handle some of the consequences of that. I had my first little polyamorous experience, a “playawife” for a few days, but I needed to get some of what was on my mind out. So, this recording is me, on-site, at 8am the day after I decided that what I was doing wasn’t going to last. Take a listen, and tell me what you think.

52 Weeks of Naughty Nights are a surprisingly thoughtful, naughty, and accessible way to spice up any partnership!

What a treat to get a brand new strap-on harness to put through its paces with a super sexy partner! Having not used one before, I was excited to get my hands on a SpareParts Joque Harness. My go-to harnesses are leather. As much as I love the feel of the leather against my skin, I’ve always wanted to try a harness that I could just throw in the washer after a hot session. You can even wear this spandex and polyester blend in the shower if your play session takes you there.