Q: My boyfriend and I are considering an open relationship. We are happy and in love and I am content with him as my only sexual partner, but he misses the freedom of being able to flirt and be a pick-up artist at the bars. I think I could get used to him having sex with other women, but I don’t feel the urge to explore sexually with other men. Could it work to be in a one-sided open relationship?…or is that doomed to lead to trouble?

Miss Ami, a full time Domme, returns to The Swingset to discuss how BDSM fits into the swinging and non-monogamous lifestyles, how these worlds collide, and being out as a kinky person. And Dylan’s curiosity seems to be moving to full blown obsession.

Pink, quiet and soft as a mouse. Lelo’s Alia, from their Insignia line, is the silkiest, smoothest clit vibe that has graced my skin. Pretty as a pearl and fits in the palm of my hand. It almost seems too lovely for me to be using it as a personal clit massager.