In Life on the Swingset, The Podcast: Ep 23, we spend a long evening with our friend Kendra Holliday, who on National Coming Out day, revealed her identity to the world on her website The Beautiful Kind. Over the course of an hour and a half, we talk with Kendra about the time since she came out to the world, the difficulties she’s had with her community and her ex husband, and how it feels to be a source of sex positive information in a difficult world. We then move beyond to our own feelings about coming out as swingers, polyamorous, non-monogamous, or even simply sex positive.

Marilyn takes her love of all things Lelo to the next level when we receive two fully waterproof vibes from their new Insignia line. Lelo doesn’t disappoint once again, the Isla & Soraya are two vibes on the MUST OWN list!

After Brent and his wife shared their non-monogamous relationship with close friends, they received the message loud and clear: “Stop the swinging, or our friendship is over.” Devastated, we wonder how and why you should come out, what are the good reasons for and against it, and how do you deal with people who simply cannot accept or respect your non-monogamous lifestyle.

In Ep 22, we wrap up our big discussion about male and female bisexuality, crossing…

Dylan gets down and dirty with An Open Invitation: A Real Swinger’s Party In San Francisco by Private Independent, a film that follows a young couple as they first begin to explore swinging, culminating with footage from a Real Swingers Party in San Francisco with 127 amateur swingers and porn stars.

Marilyn reviews the Slap Happy Baton by Pipedream Products and tells us about a very special moment with a very special girlfriend that was made all the more enjoyable because of this rod of split bamboo.

A concerned newbie swinger asks Dylan if the fact that he is uncircumcised would be a problem in the swinging lifestyle, and when to mention that fact to prospective playmates.

A reader asks the Swingset what to do when a sexy night with a friend went farther than anyone expected, rules broken, lines crossed

In Life on the Swingset, The Podcast, Ep 21, we begin the big discussion about male and female bisexuality, crossing our way into pansexuality and omnisexuality and everything in between. We discuss the journey of the bisexual male, the evolution of acceptance (and hotness) of the bisexual female, the stereotypes and biases against both and the growing need for non-monogamy to be its own subclass.

I had been nervous all day.  Anytime I asked Anne if she was nervous, she…