My name is Zoe Hanis and I think I have discovered a huge difference between…
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Two years ago a woman by the name of TBK visited us here on the…
Greetings all…One of the most common questions we get concerns single guys in the club…
My name is Zoe Hanis and I have discovered the terms polyamory and swinger are…
A listener’s story about the unreasonable request from a swing friend for the husband in…
I’ve been trying to inform people of my interest in them more, be that interest…
Our good friends SFCuties asked us, “Is there a swinger version of PolySaturated, and what…
Today I was having a conversation with Holly about what people expect to get out of the lifestyle, and how different those expectations can often be. We came to the conclusion that the expectations people have are just as varied as their reasons for getting into the lifestyle in the first place. But one of the most varied expectations I’ve seen is the variety of interpretations of those looking for “friends first” in the lifestyle. (As opposed to the NSA [No Strings Attached] folk.) Marilyn and I fall into the so called friends first category, as do most of the lifestyle people we associate with. Though lately I’ve been thinking that this idea of friends first is really a misnomer. We’ve gotten to know people a bit, either by going on a date with them, talking to them online, or meeting them through one of our other friends. But have we really become FRIENDS at that point, before we hop into bed?
Six years into the Lifestyle, I’m still amazed at how awkward it can be for…
After many years of secrets and shame, I told my wife that I had always…