The Lifestyle at a Gallop: Observations of a Unicorn November 3, 20112A Condom Conundrum – Why is More Safety Less of Everything Else? There’s a lot to be said for sloppy sex. The kind of sweaty, can’t-catch-your-breath sex that dampens the sheets – not because the bedroom was too hot to begin with, but because it got overheated during all the physical activity.