My first blog post. Other than masturbating, this seems like the most self-indulgent thing I can imagine. Especially because – unlike me masturbating – I think you may want to see this. We are swingers. More details can be found in About.  But not many details.  We can't blow our cover since we appear on the outside to be upstanding, non-deviant pillars of the community.  Maybe not pillars.  Flying buttresses?  Sorry.  I only did drugs from middle school through college, but they had an effect.  Back to the story.

So I was sitting there at the dinner table eating a bowl of cereal. The little Saids were in the shower cleaning a hard day of elementary school from their little bodies. Mrs. Said has been blogging anonymously for a couple months but decided today that she would attach her name to her creative work there.

That cinched it. Can't blow our “swinging” cover there. So we decided to begin blogging together. How long will this last? Dunno. Will anyone find it interesting? Dunno.  Is this therapeutic? So far.

So let's begin:

Swinging? Open marriage? Partner swapping? How could anyone in a happy marriage, in his/her right mind, in a conservative southern city think that was going to fly?

I dunno. Let's see…


He Said and She Said (not their given names) are 40-somethings married for 20-something years living in a large Southern US city. Spurred into action by their landscaper's tales of consensual non-monogamy, they have enjoyed swinging - and blogging about it - since 2010.

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