Our Romance With Kasidie


For the last couple months, we over here at the Swingset have been really exploring a swinger dating site called Kasidie. We were quite skeptical when we began our exploration because, by and large, the nicer the site looked, the crappier it was (AFF, I'm looking at you) and the best sites were small and regional.

I had the same discussion with several lifestyle friends, The Swap-Fus, Barefeatz and Dani Sapphire, and the whole Swingset crew, and we all agreed that what this lifestyle really needs is an overall site. Not necessarily something to ditch your primary site for yet, but one site that would cover the country and beyond, without huge gaping holes in the coverage.  The other thing our fingers were crossed for and we were hopeful of was that when this site arrived, it'd be good looking.

And Kasidie.com is quite a looker.

Up fronts, full disclosure, we're about to connect with Kasidie in a big way. They are removing their eZine and instead directing that traffic to us. Our content is still independent, but we will be pulling some of their content over as well. The thing I want everybody to know is that I was so impressed with Kasidie that when they approached me with this offer, I had to take it.

Kasidie‘s coverage isn't quite there yet. But it's growing fast. It's clean, neat, and easy to use. New features are constantly being implimented and the features it does have are pretty stellar. This is not a relationship I would've entered into with, say, the aformentioned AFF, or really any of the other swinger sites I've seen.

Kasidie is the first one I've seen that has the potential to be the One Site To Rule Them All!

The Swingset will not change, we'll still be writing articles, talking about sexy things, and recording podcasts. This relationship just allows us to reach so many more people, and bring our knowledge, experience, and suggestions to them as well.

I thank you for your readership, and I hope you will continue to swing with us on the Swingset.

PS. That's Marilyn up there showing off her gorgeous assets and showing some Kasidie love at the same time


About Cooper Cooper S. Beckett is the co-founder and host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast since 2010, author of swinging & polyamory novels A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching The Swingularity, and memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory. He teaches and speaks on swinging, polyamory, pegging, play parties, and coloring outside the boundaries of your sexuality. He is a graphic & web designer, photographer, and voice over artist, has been a guest expert on Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast, & is the announcer of Tristan Taormino’s radio show Sex Out Loud. He is currently working on two instructional non-fiction books, one about beginning non-monogamy, and another about pegging.


  1. Cooper: You are a lucky man to have such a wonderful wife. I am trying to lead the charge to make our sex life more fun and adventurous. I don’t know if we will ever venture as far as you but I am trying my best. Love your writing.


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