Fun Ways To Share Sex Toys In A Threesome

Swinging. Threesomes. Sex Toys. What do all of these things have in common? They all give “rise” to exhilarating sexual experiences!

If you're already a seasoned pro at swinging twosomes, then getting sweaty in a three-way adventure can take your sex life to a whole new level. But, if you’re already playing host to a party of three, why not take it a step further and bring your favorite sex toys to your next playdate?

You may be thinking to yourself, “But Jessica, if I'm already in a mind-blowing threesome, why do I even NEED toys?” The answer is quite simple – it's because we all crave variety, and adult toys can take you on a wildly thrilling ride!

Whether you're into FFM, MFM, or same gender orgies, there's a toy out there just begging to be played with. But, before we dive deep into all that juicy goodness, let's discuss the practical side of group sex.

Even if you're new to the swinging/poly/BDSM/open sex lifestyle, you should already know what condoms and dental dams are for. Only you and your partners know what's best for your particular situation, but always remember that the only thing that should ever come first during sex is safety.

What comes after that is a slippery slope of excitement! Trust me when I say you can never have too much LUBE, LUBE, and even more LUBE! Silicone, oil, and water-based lubricants all have their pros and cons, but the latter is compatible with all sex toy materials and condoms.

Now that you're wet with anticipation, let's explore some playfully flirty ways you can add sex toys into your next threesome!

Two Chicks & One Dick

Female-female-male trysts are what most people think of when it comes to threesomes. If you find this exciting, you're not alone – it’s the gold standard in the porn industry.

Unfortunately for the ladies, the math doesn't quite add up – one penis and two vaginas may leave one woman feeling stiffed, and not in a good way. Even with lots of tongue and finger action, someone may end up feeling unful-FILLED at the finish line.

Double dildos. It'd be brilliant if men were anatomically designed that way, but since they're not, a double-headed penis replica can be used to fill the void in this triad.

One possible scenario looks like this: the two women can pleasure each other with the double dildo inserted into their vaginas, while the man positions himself somewhere in-between them. There are plenty of hands, mouths, and backdoors for him to explore!

Two Dicks & One Jane

This particular setup can get complicated, especially if one or both of the men identify as bisexual. Luckily, anal orgasms are a real thing for women too, which means that vibrating butt plugs can help bring everyone straight to kingdom come! To make it even more interesting, use a vibrating toy that comes with a remote control so that someone else can literally push the button on your pleasure principal.

However, before anyone blows it, please use common sense. For the sake of hygiene and safety, each person should have their own dedicated anal toy. Sharing, in this case, is done only in spirit.

Here's another fun scenario to consider: if both men are straight, but at least one of them is open to anal play, try a three-way doggy style with Jane sandwiched in the middle, happily pegging one of those Dicks. Oooh-la-la!

All-Female Trysts

With silky skin, soft, squishy breasts, and more fingers than anyone knows what to do with, a threesome made up entirely of women can certainly be one of the more sensual sex adventures out there.

Dildo's, vibrators, and strap-ons are the usual suspects for girl-on-girl action, but let's not forget that tongues are the lap of luxury when it comes to getting a woman aroused.

Although it's not technically a toy in the normal sense, flavored tingle drops that are spread all over the body can bring delightful new sensations into an all-female cast, especially when that aforementioned tongue comes into play.

If that’s too vanilla, a double-ended dildo + strap-on face dildo can make this threesome extra naughty. Picture this: two women are going thrusting into each other with the double dildo, while the third woman rides the strap-on.

Three Jackhammers

When three guys get together, there’s an equal number of poles and holes, given their anatomical locations, things can get a little bit tricky. It's easy to see how this could quickly turn into an adult version of Twister!

The solution? A realistic butt masturbator or even a hand-held Fleshlight can help plug that last connection. That way, the man with the odd pole-out still has something to penetrate. One of his male playmates can even stroke the Fleshlight up and down for him. That has to be one of the best ways ever to lend a helping hand!

Please keep in mind these are only some of the ways you can incorporate sex toys into your threesomes, and this article does not intend to exclude those who don’t identify as male or female and have yet to undergo surgery. When it comes to sex toys and playmates, the possibilities are only limited by your imagination.