SS 49: Unite The Clans! Coming Together on Swinging Sites & Sex Clubs


After Shira horrifies us all by talking about a potential boy-toy's penile subincision, we manage to pull it together and discuss the changing landscape that is online swinger sites and sex clubs along with our special guest Emily from We talk a bit about the history of the website, and Emily's role there, but use it as a springboard to discuss the larger themes of how the word is spreading about non-monogamy, and how welcoming and accepting out communities can be.

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  1. Curiousnenycoupl on

    I just listened to the podcast, and I like Cooper was horrified. It seems like Cooper subscribes to something close to Kidder’s philosophy about consenting adult humans and no harm.
    It would be interesting to hear either an interview with the guy, or with Shira answering some basic questions about motivation for a sub incision, and what the perceived benefits are, as well as some of the drawbacks. I know that this isn’t directly related to swining, but Shira brought it up.

    You had also mentioned furries in the podcast, and I seem to remeber Kidder and Lorax discussing a woman who was a furry who had posted on the SIF forum. That might also be a somewhat interesting topic, and the only reason it would be related was her non-monagmy.

  2. Great podcast!  That is exactly why I love the lifestyle!!  I agree with Emily, I have never felt judged by anyone in the LS.  I am accepted for who I am and I love it!!  Hugs and Kisses for you all!!!!

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